So as I watched the season finale of The Bachelor last night I was thinking about my life... And no, I have no clue why I'd ever let a 'reality' TV show influence my thoughts on life... but there I was letting it influence me away... LOL!
It made me wonder... Do we ignore our hearts too much in life and try to use our head too often? What is it about how we grow up, the relationships we experience, the lives we live that make us what we are... who we are... that influence our choice on that special person we choose to experience life with? And how many of us would be willing to admit it if we did choose the wrong person, for all the wrong reasons?
I think life opens doors for us... allows us to make our own choices and then allows us to reap the benefits or the regrets of those choices. But if we're willing to do as Jason did, admit we're wrong, face our fears and keep our feet moving foward... we might find that some choices can be corrected, wrongs can be made right, unhappiness can become happiness and uncertainty can become certain again.
Everyone needs love. Everyone deserves love. Its how we love and how we allow ourselves to be loved in the end that gets us through the curve balls life throws at us. Its our choice to follow our head or our heart... I choose my heart. ;)
BTW... HE CHOSE THE WRONG RING!!!!!! Don't get me wrong... BEAUTIFUL ring... but the first one they showed... OMG... why didn't he pick that one! If I could find a pic of it... I'd post it...
Song of the day:
Sara Bareilles : 'Come Round Soon'
MUCH LOVE TO MY PEEPS ;-)
1 comment:
Totally agree on the ring! I loved the first one too!!!
but... I think there is a reason he didnt choose Molly, something made him say goodbye to her. It's always easier to remember the good instead of the bad when you miss someone. That seems to be the hardest thing when you break up - the 'what if?' question. I wouldnt be surprised if the does the same thing now that Melissa is out of his life. I think he just doesnt know what he wants. Once you say goodbye to someone and choose someone else over them, why go back? Something was missing... and personally, I wanted Molly to turn him down. He doesnt deserve either one...
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